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Do you always....

have to win every argument?

 
HappyGirl44

Asked by HappyGirl44 at 2:27 PM on Jan. 21, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (13)
  • Nope.. When we argue (which is rarely) there is never a "winner" or "Loser".. We have learned the art of compromise and understanding over the span of our 25 years together. We understand now that winning the argument isn't a resolution, it's one just playing one up. We opt for working out resolutions together instead of trying for an individual "win".

    pixie_trix

    Answer by pixie_trix at 2:32 PM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • No, not at all. I argue in a pretty humble manner. I get my point across make sure it's understood & leave it be. Although, if it turns out i "won" the argument, i do tend to rub it in his face...LOL!
    samurai_chica

    Answer by samurai_chica at 2:30 PM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • No. One can't always be right. I have had to learn this the hard way. The more you can see the other ones point of view the more you realize where you are wrong or you are right. Hope this helps.
    Strangemama28

    Answer by Strangemama28 at 2:30 PM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • No if I'm wrong I'm wrong and if I'm right I'm right!
    Darla47

    Answer by Darla47 at 2:30 PM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • No. But I usually think I'm right :)
    sfwilson

    Answer by sfwilson at 2:31 PM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • We don't argue either. It's a good thing :-)
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 2:35 PM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • Its not about who is right, its about what is right. I always remember that!
    parajumper3

    Answer by parajumper3 at 2:36 PM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • no because i like to hear the other person out
    kewi86

    Answer by kewi86 at 2:36 PM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • No. But I like to hear that he acknowledges and understand what upset me if that's what we're arguing about.
    Orionsgirl

    Answer by Orionsgirl at 2:38 PM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • Most of the time, but he knows he's won when I say "i'm not talking about this anymore" But when I think I'm right I'm 100% right, When I know I'm wrong he still doesn't get the credit.
    Rachel24517

    Answer by Rachel24517 at 3:07 PM on Jan. 21, 2011

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