My 16 year old stepson's mother hates me with a passion and I cannot figure out why. For a short time she even refused to let him come to see his dad because she didn't want her son around me. Her son became a vegan after his father did and she blamed it on me....in fact anything that she doesn't like that he does she blames on me (and this whole side of the family knows that she is snooty and feels that my stepson embarrasses her just by his hair, or the way he dresses, or wearing his glasses). The thing is, I feel that her and I should get along because of her son being in my life. What can I do to resolve this issue?
Answer by sam223 at 8:11 PM on Jan. 21, 2011
Answer by gemgem at 5:27 PM on Jan. 21, 2011
Answer by collier5 at 5:29 PM on Jan. 21, 2011
Answer by louise2 at 5:36 PM on Jan. 21, 2011
Nothing you can do. I can see as a Bio mom getting slightly annoyed by the vegan thing because now she probably has to completely change how she cooks at home. If I where her I would have talked to the dad and asked if next time she could get a heads up about any huge lifestyle changes that may effect how things run in her house. No reason to hate any one or be mean.
How long have they been separated? Did he have any other relationships between theirs and yours? My step kid's bio mom is awesome to me, but they have not been together for over a decade and he had dated a few girls between the time they split and meeting me so it was not new to her.
Answer by Alanaplus3 at 6:16 PM on Jan. 21, 2011
Answer by Alanaplus3 at 8:35 PM on Jan. 21, 2011
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