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do you mind when if people just show up without notice?

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Asked by SimplyErathy at 5:55 PM on Jan. 21, 2011 in Home & Garden

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  • Yep I do mind! I usually wont let them in either because most people know I am come over when invited only person. I value my privacy and have scheduled time for my family and dont like it being disrupted.

    Answer by gemgem at 5:57 PM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • Yes I mind. I don't like wearing clothes when I'm home alone!

    Answer by admckenzie at 5:57 PM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • Not most people. I always enjoy having company. There are a few people that I would prefer they call and give me a little notice, but for the most part, drop-ins are just fine.

    Answer by NannyB. at 5:58 PM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • depends on who they are, if its just my sister or mom thatas fine but anyone else I dont want to be in my pj's all gross as can be!

    Answer by 21lisa72 at 5:59 PM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • I used to but wouldn't care anymore. Of course the house would not be to my liking but good enough...........

    Answer by elizabr at 5:59 PM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • yes i do mind. my mil likes to drop in unannounced sometimes (although out of the blue, she rarely gives a damn that we live 5 miles from her so her unexpected drop ins happen 3 or 4 times a year) but yet i have to call her if im coming over. pfffft!

    Answer by tnm786 at 6:00 PM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • I HATE IT!!!!! I like being home with no visitors lol, if i wanted visitors, i would go to there house and visit lol....hopefully none of my friends/ family read this =D

    Answer by knicole0708 at 6:00 PM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • Yes,I do care. I'm not real big on guests in general,so unexpected ones are bad

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 6:00 PM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • I don't mind at all although it hasn't happened to us in four years since we moved away from home. People used to show up at all hours of the day and night uninvited. We didn't care.

    Answer by ashisamom at 6:02 PM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • Yes, I do mind. Everyone in my life respects that except a certain someone who shall remain unnamed, who will show up unannounced, then act like an asshole about it. She's been told many, many times that a phone call in advance is very helpful--she totally doesn't call, just to piss us off.
    Vent over.

    Answer by vicesix at 6:02 PM on Jan. 21, 2011

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