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How many kids did you want before you got pregnant the 1st time?

Have your plans changed bc you've realized how tough it can be?

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mamaziller

Asked by mamaziller at 6:19 PM on Jan. 21, 2011 in General Parenting

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    Having children was never huge on my list of things to do in this lifetime.

    My husband and I agreed upon 1 and had 1 after we had been married (nearly) 6 years. He'll be 20 his next birthday. So, my plans really didn't change, we agreed upon 1, we had 1, we have been more than perfectly happy with our 1 through the years. I have never experienced "baby fever", I have never had any need or desire to have more children.
    pixie_trix

    Answer by pixie_trix at 6:22 PM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • big fat 0, wasnt maternal at all, I was young and wanted to go save the world, my dd was a happy surprise:) Its only now I think about having more after 5 years
    DawnLauren

    Answer by DawnLauren at 6:23 PM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • 0.. I wanted to go and see the world.. but life had different plans for me..
    Autumn07

    Answer by Autumn07 at 6:33 PM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • None. We were happy never to have kids... But nature and failed birthcontrol had different ideas.
    SabrinaMBowen

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 6:33 PM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • We wanted 3,4 or even more. Even after our fist we still wanted a few, now that we have our second, I'm not sure, it's a trying job for sure, but, for me it's more about the quality of time we would be able to spend with eqchother if we have more. Sounds a bit selfish, but we have to have a healthy relationship to make sure our family has one.....
    BabyBugsmama

    Answer by BabyBugsmama at 6:37 PM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • None. My best friend back then and I swore we were never having kids...I now have two teens and she has none!
    charlotsomtimes

    Answer by charlotsomtimes at 6:45 PM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • I didn't want any children for a long time, then I changed my mind, and after 2 years needed fertility drugs, miscarried twice and had my son. I was SO happy to get one child....then baby fever struck again and I wanted another one....but my husband left us and that's the end of the story. If I had the where with all to adopt, I would have liked 3 or 4 kids.
    kjrn79

    Answer by kjrn79 at 6:56 PM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • Two and that is what I have
    liss05

    Answer by liss05 at 7:01 PM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • 6....I've got 5...not sure if we are going to have another.
    MrsMWF

    Answer by MrsMWF at 7:05 PM on Jan. 21, 2011

  • I never really wanted to have kids, but didn't want to not have them either, if that makes sense. When me and hubby got married, we said two, maybe three. After the first one, I really didn't want to go through pregnancy again, but now we have three.
    montanagal2005

    Answer by montanagal2005 at 7:09 PM on Jan. 21, 2011

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