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My dh wants to try anal sex and i'm not to sure... What do you think?

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klhoe

Asked by klhoe at 10:49 AM on Jan. 22, 2011 in Relationships

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  • For me,no way!
    Don't be talked into anything you're not comfortable with just to please him.
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 10:50 AM on Jan. 22, 2011

  • i wouldn't..it's just not for me, i think i'd feel violated lol
    josiesmommy00

    Answer by josiesmommy00 at 10:50 AM on Jan. 22, 2011

  • It's totally up to you. If you think you might want to try it go ahead, but do it because you want to experiment a little. If it doesn't please you then you don't have to do it again.

    elizabr

    Answer by elizabr at 10:52 AM on Jan. 22, 2011

  • Personaly I dont mind it, I let dh do it from time to time. For me the only part that really hurts is getting it in. (sorry tmi)
    But if you do end up doing it make sure you stay relaxed! When you tense up is when it hurts the most. And obviously use lube.
    GL! lol
    jessran1218

    Answer by jessran1218 at 10:53 AM on Jan. 22, 2011

  • believe it or not, I must have the only husband on the planet who says he's had enough of it!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:02 AM on Jan. 22, 2011

  • I think the real question is..
    What do YOU think about it.?
    Mme.Langley

    Answer by Mme.Langley at 11:02 AM on Jan. 22, 2011

  • its up to you. you have to feel comfortable too
    tinkerbear02

    Answer by tinkerbear02 at 11:03 AM on Jan. 22, 2011

  • That's something that you have to decide on your own.
    For me I didn't think I liked it and it turns out that I don't. So if you are interested or even curious then go for it. If not, then tell him that you would rather not.
    JazzlikeMraz

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 11:11 AM on Jan. 22, 2011

  • If you're not ready, then don't do it, but keep an open mind.  You may be ready to try it at some point in the future.

    beeky

    Answer by beeky at 11:11 AM on Jan. 22, 2011

  • tried it once and we couldnt even get started cuz it hurt so bad. i was crying and shaking i was in so much pain. never ...... !!
    mistik75

    Answer by mistik75 at 11:13 AM on Jan. 22, 2011

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