I have been talking with a man for several months and we have a great connection and I would say we are connected emotionally but not physically yet. He tells me he wants to but can't because he cannot give me more or what he thinks I want so it is not fair to me. At times I wonder if he is truly afraid of hurting me or that I will fall in love with him or if he is perhaps afraid he might fall in love with me. I appreciate his honesty but I think he has fear that he might fall as well, not just me fall for him as he always says. What do you think?
Asked by Anonymous at 11:12 AM on Jan. 22, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by knicole0708 at 11:16 AM on Jan. 22, 2011
Ok, the answer is in your second sentence of this post. Read it again. He tells you he wants to but cant b/c he cannot give you more right now or what he thinks you want right now. Period. He isnt afraid of falling in love, he isnt sure if he can commit and he doesnt want to hurt you if he cant commit. So, take it slow and see where things go. Let him be the one to chase you, thats how it works and if this isnt the guy, then move on to someone who will be ready to commit
Answer by beyondhopes at 11:21 AM on Jan. 22, 2011
Answer by pixie_trix at 1:00 PM on Jan. 22, 2011
Answer by admckenzie at 11:57 AM on Jan. 22, 2011
Answer by mandaday at 12:44 PM on Jan. 22, 2011
Answer by Austinsmom35 at 2:56 PM on Jan. 22, 2011
Answer by Ricanmami1 at 7:04 PM on Jan. 22, 2011
Answer by ItsMe89 at 8:56 PM on Jan. 22, 2011
Girl, when a man tells you something, listen. At least he is being honest. I don't think that he is afraid of falling in love. He does not want a long term relationship. I wish more men were that honest, there would be less angry and hurt women in the world.
Answer by emilysmom1966 at 7:47 AM on Jan. 23, 2011