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What is tht supposed to mean? am i supposed to accept tht answer?

I am back w sons father for about 2wks, things have been pretty awkward, so i asked him how he feels about me, he said he doesnt know, i asked how he feels about our relationship, and he said its wierd considering we've been at each others throats (cont)


Asked by Logan17000 at 5:29 PM on Jan. 22, 2011 in Relationships

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  • If I was you I'd stop asking him questions instead focus your energy on who you are and what type of woman you want to be. Try to stop being at "each other's throats". See what happens. Give it more time.

    Answer by bjane01 at 5:38 PM on Jan. 22, 2011

  • Have you tried couples counseling?

    Answer by rkoloms at 6:43 PM on Jan. 22, 2011

  • The past yr. So i asked well how do u feel about not being w me? and he said i wouldnt like tht i dont think... Im confused, what should i do?

    Comment by Logan17000 (original poster) at 5:31 PM on Jan. 22, 2011

  • just take it easy try to enjoy each others company go on dates communicate & try to just cuddle goodluck mama

    Answer by Ricanmami1 at 5:58 PM on Jan. 22, 2011

  • He is being honest. Your relationship needs lots of work. It would not be beneficial if he pretended things were wonderful when you both know they aren't.

    Answer by tootoobusy at 6:22 PM on Jan. 22, 2011

  • men hate 20 questions. Just try and reconnect with him. Be nice

    Answer by gulfcoastmom4 at 7:36 PM on Jan. 22, 2011

  • Men hate talking about relationship problems..just take it day by day and try to communicate better.

    Answer by bookmommy at 7:57 PM on Jan. 22, 2011

  • Yes ease back and give it some time, I honestly think he wants to work it out or why would he still be with you?? Men are wired so different, (like above,) don't 20 question him. Focus on more positive energy stuff such as your children, make their father little suprises once in awhile. Maybe his favorite meal, or wearing a shirt that he favors on you, etc. I wouldn't go as far as kissing butt to help him make up his mind, but I would surly put positive energy there, most of all you don't want your children living in a negative world with their parents. Not good for them at all. Then maybe you both can eventually get to where you can possibly figure out the problem and maybe try some consuling (a wonderfuld idea from above comment). Remember, it didn't take over night to get to where you are, it won't be an overnight fix. Those kind of fixes are doomed to fail....

    Answer by AmI88 at 11:40 PM on Jan. 22, 2011