My job is moving across country and I can go with it. My job will pay to move me cross country. I am almost 7 months pregnant and this probably would not occur until summer. My BF does not want to go but doesn't really have a good reason other than he doesn't want to, his suggestions was to take a severence pkg and go to school. He does have a daughter that is in the same state we are in and he gets to see her about once a week, but he really didn't bring that up as a reason he doesn't want to move. Also He does not make enough for us to live on comfortable and the severence pkg would keep us a float for about 5 months. I will not be able to find a job with benefits or pay as great as my current one. Do I stay and suffer for the greater good or go and leave him here if it comes to that?Answer Question
Answer by worriedmommy600 at 1:25 AM on Jan. 23, 2011
Answer by EwansMommy at 1:29 AM on Jan. 23, 2011
Answer by worriedmommy600 at 1:33 AM on Jan. 23, 2011
If you move then you may lose your bf and if you stay you may not have a good job....I see the dilemma. It's a hard decision because either way there's going to be some sacrifice most likely. If it were me I would try to stay somehow, but if you simply can't then try to see if he can visit you sometimes I guess. Is this job move permanent?
Answer by SweetLoveofMine at 2:24 AM on Jan. 23, 2011
Answer by Michigan-Mom74 at 2:41 AM on Jan. 23, 2011
Answer by Michigan-Mom74 at 2:51 AM on Jan. 23, 2011
This is a big decision and it requires more in-depth discussion than "I don't want to". You need to sit down together and make a list of all the pros and cons of moving and staying.
Answer by beeky at 6:44 AM on Jan. 23, 2011
Answer by Scuba at 8:46 AM on Jan. 23, 2011
Answer by hobbitswife04 at 10:19 AM on Jan. 23, 2011
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