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Do you agree on most things with dh?

Dh and I agree on pretty much everything. We never get into arguements like some couples do. It makes me wonder if dh and I are just better paired than others or if we're just more respectful than others. Idk.


Asked by SweetLoveofMine at 6:54 AM on Jan. 23, 2011 in Relationships

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  • I think some people have personalities that lend to less arguing. My DH and I both are emotional stubborn people. So we argue. Because someone seems to get their feeling hurt too often. Either me or him. The stubborn comes out in the other and we argue. We have spend many days talking about how not to fight. So I would say that those that don't fight involve 2 people who have nothing to prove and genes or experiences that help them be calmer.

    Answer by bjane01 at 9:09 AM on Jan. 23, 2011

  • My dh and I agree about most things. We've been married almost 21 years and I can count the real arguments we have had on one hand. We love and respect each other and that's what makes it work.

    Answer by neebug3766 at 7:00 AM on Jan. 23, 2011

  • My DH & i been married for 29 years. I can count on one hand the number of real arguments we have had in those years. The first few years of our marriage was Challenging tho with all our drama with his ex and her kids, but when they gave up trying to break up, things got better.

    Answer by Honda309 at 7:09 AM on Jan. 23, 2011

  • We have been married for 22years in March 2011. We agree on most everything. We very rarelyargue.  But if we do disagree. We agree to disagree.


    Answer by louise2 at 7:11 AM on Jan. 23, 2011

  • My DH and I rarely disagree, we think a lot alike. I know some couples that seem to need arguing - it's just their way.

    Answer by Scuba at 7:34 AM on Jan. 23, 2011

  • we rarely disagree.

    Answer by serioussifL at 8:05 AM on Jan. 23, 2011

  • hardly anything these days. what do u do?

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:40 AM on Jan. 23, 2011

  • We do disagree but in the 8+ years we've been together I can count our serious fights on 2 fingers lol. We don't argue about money,or our child which to me is the things most people argue about. I don't have a secret as to why we don't argue,maybe its because we both have the same idea for most situations.

    Answer by elyssek832 at 9:38 AM on Jan. 23, 2011

  • We agree on pretty much everything and when we disagree with just talk through our reasons and don't aruge about it just find a steady ground. Rare though...we are best friends - qwe spend everyday all day together workign from home.

    Answer by keyaziz at 10:31 AM on Jan. 23, 2011

  • We argue, but it's more of a discussion about our disagreements than verbally fighting. We're both just stubborn, lol. However, we agree on the most important things (how to treat each other, how to raise our children, etc.) and it all works out. We're a very healthy couple.

    Answer by LizardAgent at 10:39 AM on Jan. 23, 2011