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Has your mom or your MIL had more influence on your life?


Asked by scout_mom at 11:48 AM on Jan. 23, 2011 in Relationships

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  • Both for different reasons. My mom because she is well educated and a retired professional who always has been able to push me to finish school and all that sort of stuff. My mil because she is more a home maker (even though she works) and has taught me I dont have to fight with everyone I disagree with.

    Answer by gemgem at 11:59 AM on Jan. 23, 2011

  • My Mom.

    Answer by Simplicity3 at 11:51 AM on Jan. 23, 2011

  • My mom, for sure, although I have learned a lot from my MIL.

    Answer by elizabr at 12:08 PM on Jan. 23, 2011

  • my mother because i was never close to my MIL, she lived in the same town as us but i only saw her mayb 4x's a year....

    Answer by cara124 at 12:18 PM on Jan. 23, 2011

  • My mom, I am the youngest so I was always babied.. From her actions I am learning to be the exact opposit.. Kids never learn if you dont let them learn life experiences on their own.. And my MIL, well she has taught me the kind of person I dont want to be a sour old biddie

    Answer by ArystaBrat at 1:21 PM on Jan. 23, 2011

  • i dont like either of them so no i dont take advice from either of them.

    Answer by mrssundin at 1:38 PM on Jan. 23, 2011

  • My MIL cause she lives 5 min away and she likes to put her opinion in whether we ask or not lol My mom has influence when I ask for her input. I like it that way better.

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:52 AM on Jan. 23, 2011

  • Have to say mother, though since I've been grown, neither has lived near-by, so not much influence from either.

    Answer by SweetLuci at 1:33 PM on Jan. 23, 2011

  • my mom and my dad... we live in key west and my mil lives in new york, so obviously my hub and i see my parents more. they have been there for us since the beginning and watch our little girl everyday that we're working, they are a blessing to have to close. plus they are completely unbias, they love my husband like a son and treat him that way.

    Answer by JenaandSean at 3:04 PM on Jan. 23, 2011

  • my mom and step mom, my mil's were scared of me. :D
    Diana K.

    Answer by Diana K. at 8:29 PM on Jan. 23, 2011