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Sex question, i need advice plz?!

My SO does foreplay to me but nothing i like (too rough, wrong spot, etc.) when i tell him a diff way to do it he completely ignores me Any tips on how i can get him to do what i like?


Asked by Anonymous at 9:50 PM on Jan. 23, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (11)
  • Tell him, ONE time, that he needs to listen to you. That it's important, and he needs to be able to listen, and change how he does things so that he can please you. After that one time, if he ignores you, then when you are giving him oral, slip a finger in his ass. See how he likes it. When he gets pissed, just tell him you thought you'd try something new.


    Then tell him that you tried talking with him, and got tired of his selfish ass not listening. That's what he gets.

    Answer by Raine2001 at 11:03 PM on Jan. 23, 2011

  • LOL...dump him??

    Good luck. I don't think there is any way! I'm sorry!

    Answer by SandyHack at 9:51 PM on Jan. 23, 2011

  • Show him.

    Answer by MrsMWF at 9:54 PM on Jan. 23, 2011

  • He is being selfish! Is he the same with out of bed?

    Answer by gammie at 9:55 PM on Jan. 23, 2011

  • I guess i should add hes my sons father so i dont wanna jus dump him, and he can be selfish outside of bed but not always

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 10:08 PM on Jan. 23, 2011

  • I'd do foreplay on him and do it wrong and see what he says.

    Answer by admckenzie at 10:11 PM on Jan. 23, 2011

  • Raine2001 way too funny! Love your answer!

    Answer by proudmom611 at 11:43 PM on Jan. 23, 2011


    Answer by inlovewith4 at 12:48 AM on Jan. 24, 2011

  • Telling and showing my ex-husband did nothing for me. He never changed what he was doing and it eventually turned me off since he didn't listen and it was ALWAYS the same and he got what he needed and I didn't.

    Answer by rio_burb at 11:12 AM on Jan. 24, 2011

  • Man, and I thought I'd get slammed for my comment! I thought it was a good idea myself! LOL! It's important to listen your partner, ya know?

    Answer by Raine2001 at 3:29 PM on Jan. 24, 2011