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Do you have a Child with RAD. (Reactive Attachment Disorder)

If you have a child diagnosed with this. Or need more info on this disorder please feel free to email me or reply to this post. This is a diagnosis where there is definetley they need to have other moms to speak to.


By Mayo Clinic staff

Reactive attachment disorder begins before age 5. Signs and symptoms of the disorder may begin when the child is still an infant.

Signs and symptoms in babies may include:

  • Withdrawn, sad and listless appearance
  • Failure to smile
  • Lack of the normal tendency to follow others in the room with the eyes
  • Failure to reach out when picked up
  • No interest in playing peekaboo or other interactive games
  • No interest in playing with toys
  • Engaging in self-soothing behavior, such as rocking or self-stroking
  • Calm when left alone
  • Signs and symptoms in toddlers, older children and adolescents may include:
  • Withdrawing from others
  • Avoiding or dismissing comforting comments or gestures
  • Acting aggressively toward peers
  • Watching others closely but not engaging in social interaction
  • Failing to ask for support or assistance
  • Obvious and consistent awkwardness or discomfort
  • Masking feelings of anger or distress
  • Alcohol or drug abuse in adolescents

As children with reactive attachment disorder grow older, they may develop either inhibited or disinhibited behavior patterns. While some children have signs and symptoms of just one type of behavior, many exhibit both types.

  • Inhibited behavior. Children with inhibited behavior shun relationships and attachments to virtually everyone. This may happen when a baby never has the chance to develop an attachment to any caregiver.
  • Disinhibited behavior. Children with disinhibited behavior seek attention from virtually everyone, including strangers. This may happen when a baby has multiple caregivers or frequent changes in caregivers. Children with this type of reactive attachment disorder may frequently ask for help doing tasks, have inappropriately childish behavior or appear anxious.

There's little research on signs and symptoms of reactive attachment disorder beyond early childhood. It may lead to controlling, aggressive or delinquent behaviors, trouble relating to peers, and other problems. While treatment can help children and adults cope with reactive attachment disorder, the changes that occur during early childhood are permanent and the disorder is a lifelong challenge.


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  8. Coercive interventions for reactive attachment disorder. Association for Treatment and Training in the Attachment of Children. Accessed July 1, 2009.
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July 16, 2009

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Answer Question

Asked by Anonymous at 10:14 PM on Jan. 23, 2011 in General Parenting

Answers (4)
  • There is a group for that on here.

    Answer by matthewscandi at 10:33 PM on Jan. 23, 2011

  • This looks a little like an advertisement to me.....I don't know though.  To answer your question though NO my children do not have this thank goodness!


    Answer by lowencope at 10:34 PM on Jan. 23, 2011

  • Not meant to be an advertisment, just trying to help ppl be aware. I thought I was doing something wrong as a mom when my son was going through all this. I fealt so alone and confused and helpless watching my child go through things that he had no idea what he was going through. Him not being able to explain his thoughts and actions........... made for unintentional WW3 just to do homework or a simple chore.
    Took 5 years and 7 doctors to figure it out, and get him on the right medication.
    ANd I am a member on that site.

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 10:40 PM on Jan. 23, 2011

  • is you do have a child with attachment disorder or rad join this group

    Answer by feralkitten at 8:29 PM on Feb. 12, 2011

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