What do you do when BM dilibratley makes her son angry at BF with half sided stories. How do you correct it in a positive manner. I am neutral to it, but get pulled in, because she even has told him that I am "trying to steal him from her" . I have told him, I love him as one of my own, but I would never try keeping him from his mom and that I grew up with out a mom and can understand that when he is visting us, he will miss her and that, the emotion is normal as well as okay. SHouldn't any parent be obliged in a divorce situation, that the step parent can want and give only the best to their child when they are not able to be there 100%. i CAN'T STAND TO SEE MY SS SO CONFUSED AND UPSET. I have children of my own. ANd BM has skids of her own now, how is she with them? Has even went so far to say that only her family and BD 's family is the real family. That my family, who he has grown to love, is not his family because we are only step. I have told my SS that family is, yes who you are born into, but also the ppl you choose to trust and love. Am I wrong? Wait a minute, no I am not wrong. My views may be different from others but if you are a SParent, what would your views be?
Asked by Anonymous at 10:36 PM on Jan. 23, 2011 in General Parenting
Answer by Danishlady at 10:42 PM on Jan. 23, 2011
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