I can't help it.... I kiss and hug my 3 year old ALL the time.. but being he will be our only, I also thing I do too many things FOR him and still think and see him as "my baby' we didn't get an easy baby to say it gently, I had PPD and bonding issues so I think sometimes I am making up for that.. which would be fine but I think I am hindering him from learning independence or self confidence.. I still put on his shoes and totally dress him.. the thing is, he TOTALLY lets me..we jokingly say he has "king qualities" along with my doing things for him... I am aware of it and working on it... but do you think the constant loving and kissing is too much too??
Asked by Anonymous at 2:08 PM on Jan. 24, 2011 in General Parenting
Nothing wrong with that at all!!!! People say I have done too much for my daughter who is 14 because she still wants me to go back with her at the doctor and dentist just to name a few things but I look at it as if I make her feel safe and secure then I have done a good job!!!
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