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How often are you intimate with SO/DH?

How often are you intimate with SO/DH?

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kathy067j

Asked by kathy067j at 2:11 PM on Jan. 24, 2011 in Relationships

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  • For some reason I knew this would be asked today :) About 4 times a week on average
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:13 PM on Jan. 24, 2011

  • define 'intimate'..sex only? handholding? snuggling on the couch while he watches 'Locked Up Abroad'?
    dullscissors

    Answer by dullscissors at 2:14 PM on Jan. 24, 2011

  • daily =)
    how_reb

    Answer by how_reb at 2:14 PM on Jan. 24, 2011

  • We average 5x a week. We made an agreement years ago that we do not go more than 2 days without. Unless of course life tosses some unforeseen circumstances at us that get in the way.. lol.. Life being what it is, that does happen occasionally, however, not nearly as often seen we made the agreement. Before the agreement things like: being too tired, too stressed, too busy, etc. would be used by both of us as a "reason" for not being intimate or sexually intimate. We had a lot of wasted days and wasted nights. Those types of things have not been an issue nearly as often since we made our agreement.

    We are 48 & 49 and we have been married 25 years now.
    pixie_trix

    Answer by pixie_trix at 2:16 PM on Jan. 24, 2011

  • At least every other day, normally.
    ac9104

    Answer by ac9104 at 2:17 PM on Jan. 24, 2011

  • I also wanted to add this.

    I do not believe there is an average "norm" for having sex. I don't even think the amount/number of times a couple has sex is the most important factor of their sex life. I believe that: BOTH partners being happy, satisfied, fulfilled and mutually pleasured by/with their sex life IS the most important factor. Some couples can have sex 1 time a month or less, and BOTH of them be extremely happy and satisfied with the sex they have and in turn their sex life. Some couples can have sex everyday, and either one or both of them NOT be happy are satisfied with the sex they are having.. If it's not mutually pleasurable, wanted, satisfying, fulfilling for BOTH partners, it doesn't matter how often they have sex, they will not be "happy" with their sex life.
    pixie_trix

    Answer by pixie_trix at 2:19 PM on Jan. 24, 2011

  • When he's home 2-4 times a week
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 2:19 PM on Jan. 24, 2011

  • once a week
    Bubbie0809

    Answer by Bubbie0809 at 2:21 PM on Jan. 24, 2011

  • Usually once a month or so. But it's been since Juneish right now because of pregnancy and it will be at least March before we can do that again because of surgery...
    SabrinaMBowen

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 2:33 PM on Jan. 24, 2011

  • Sex...not nearly often enough. Intimacy...every day. We are one of those couples who are going to make our kids gag when they get older.
    misses_nick

    Answer by misses_nick at 3:06 PM on Jan. 24, 2011

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