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Do I invited my fiance's parents to the wedding???

For those who have read some of my other posts, you may know that my fiance's parents don't like me. Nothing I did, just the way they are. Anyway, his mother told him the other day that they wouldn't be comming to the wedding because she had to work that day, even though she takes off work at a drop of a hat to do things with his sister. Anyway, should I send them an invite anyway? Oh if you are wondering, they live 20 min from the wedding site.


Asked by JLS2388 at 3:32 PM on Jan. 24, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (18)
  • Yes if for nothing else don't give them the ammo to say that you guys didn't even invite them.

    Answer by Charis76 at 3:33 PM on Jan. 24, 2011

  • Invite them....if they choose not to come, it's on them not you.....

    Answer by ohwrite at 3:40 PM on Jan. 24, 2011

  • Yes. Start out on the right foot.

    Answer by mompam at 3:34 PM on Jan. 24, 2011

  • Yes. They are his parents and not inviting them will just cause more harm then good.

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 3:34 PM on Jan. 24, 2011

  • Absolutely! That way she can't go around telling her friends that you didn't even invite her. Send her the invite and then just let it go. She's only hurting her son by not going, but at least you won't have to put up with her on your special day. Her loss!

    Answer by slw123 at 3:34 PM on Jan. 24, 2011

  • I would. Atleast then it it is ever brought up again they can't say they weren't invited.

    Answer by arenad at 3:34 PM on Jan. 24, 2011

  • Send it so they don't complain later and you were the bigger person. She very obviously has problems if she is going to skip her son's wedding.

    Answer by wildflowers25 at 3:36 PM on Jan. 24, 2011

  • yes you have to invite them whether or not they come

    Answer by zperez0809 at 3:37 PM on Jan. 24, 2011

  • Absolutely.

    Answer by August07Mom at 3:37 PM on Jan. 24, 2011

  • Invite them if you want them to decide for themselves whether or not to come. If you (both) don't want them to come, don't invite them.

    In fact, never invite anyone to your wedding who you do not want to come to it.

    Answer by LindaClement at 3:38 PM on Jan. 24, 2011