My dd is 4. Her dad isn't around much because of work but he is moving closer. He said he wants every other weekend. The problem is, my dd WON'T go with him when he picks her up. I mean flat out refuses. She just has no bond with him, my husband is a great dad to her though. Usually, he has to pick her up kicking and sreaming and put her in the car. do you think I could be found in comtemp of court if when he comes to pick her up, if she doesn't want to go, I don't allow him to drag her from my house? I mean I will let her go if she wants and encourage it, I just don't feel comfortable with him coming in my home and draging her out. I know she needs a relationship with him BUT being dragged from her home doesn't seem to be the best way to get the bonding going and it happens once a month or so.
Asked by Anonymous at 8:46 PM on Jan. 24, 2011 in Parenting Debate
Answer by LiLJeni at 5:51 PM on Jan. 25, 2011
Answer by Scuba at 8:51 PM on Jan. 24, 2011
Answer by Scuba at 9:14 PM on Jan. 24, 2011
I agree with you. It's not productive and him only coming around once a month might be the reasoning behind it. Do you have court soon? I would make sure to tell the judge that you understand the need for them to see each other but it might be best if for awhile, supervised visits be put into place.
Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 8:49 PM on Jan. 24, 2011
Answer by ready4baby2011 at 8:49 PM on Jan. 24, 2011
Answer by matthewscandi at 9:07 PM on Jan. 24, 2011
Answer by heatheryn at 7:49 AM on Jan. 25, 2011
Answer by Lynnsae at 11:35 PM on Jan. 24, 2011
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