i'm not jealous or insecure, and i know that my so is attracted to me. however... he constantly (CONSTANTLY) points out other women (in bars, on tv, when discussing our exes) and how attractive they are. i find this really insulting.
examples: his ex has a nice, i mean, niccce ass; my coworker is gorgeous (like i don't know she's gorgeous? i can see this girl too lol); blondes really do it for him (ouch, a little, i'm brunette); this girl in a music video has a great body... etc... this is pretty much daily.
i've expressed to him that saying a girl is pretty when it's part of the conversation is totally appropriate, but to incessantly shove in my face how hot he thinks every chick in the world is really hurts my feelings. it makes me feel like i'm not special, and i think it's more appropriate for when he's with his guy friends.
i'm not offended that he's attracted to other girls. but i think it's just really rude for him to point them out all the time.
when i bring it up he thinks it's cute that i'm "jealous" or feels like i'm just nagging. i don't think he understands that it's disrespectful and really hurts me. wtf? how can i get this across without sounding like some kind of nazi?
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