I have been married to my husband for almost 6 years, and 99% of that time I was madly in love and so very happy with him .
He has always treated me well and we have never had a problem - until now...
This past Sept. he got a new job - a great job and we were very excited ! It is the job he has always wanted and it was a HUGE pay increase .... we were able to live nicely and even have extra money every month ( before we were living pay check to pay check)
After a few weeks at his new job he started to get an attitude... he started acting like he was "too good" for me or something ...
Then came the kicker, he got me a job at a gas station !...
He just came home one day and told me that he thinks I dont appreciate all that he does, so he had his friend who owns a gas station give me a night shift job there.
I was so much in shock and so mad... I never took him for granted, I never treated him badly and I was a VERY hard working stay at home mom ( i also took care of my grandma ) ... and he acted like I was lounging around eating bonbons ...
We didnt even need the money .,.... every month he would give me some money do do what I wnt with it ( I would use it to buy house things, craft things or things I needed, or I would just save it) , he would also give me money for the kids and then he would have a share for himself.... and now he said the money I make I can use for my "luxuries" .
Not only now do I have to still do everything I did before, but I have to do it on no sleep ( I have to get ready to leave when the kids go to bed, and I get home right before they wake up ) .... I am just so depressed and hurt over this... I have tried to talk to him and he just tells me he wanted me to have this job so I would respect him more ...
But now tomorrow I know exactly what I am going to tell him, and that is that, when he did this I lost all respect for him , he completely ruined our relationship, and now the money that I am making I am usuing for a cheap apt. in town !
What would you do if your husband did this !!???
Asked by Anonymous at 10:03 PM on Jan. 24, 2011 in Relationships
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