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Do you get up with DH/SO and send him off to work?

DH likes tea and bread before work. I found that we have a good day when I send him off with a kiss after his tea. A better day than when I sleep in and don't see him go out the door. I also like knowing what he had on that day.

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QueenAdeela

Asked by QueenAdeela at 6:01 AM on Jan. 25, 2011 in Relationships

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  • I am still awake when he leaves for work but I make it a point to be awake when he's leaving. He doesn't eat breakfast or drink coffee or anything so I don't fix anything but I do pack his lunch everyday and always make something special in it like homemade cookies. I usually put a note in there that says something like"Made 4 U by me with love xoxo
    SweetLoveofMine

    Answer by SweetLoveofMine at 6:12 AM on Jan. 25, 2011

  • No, I'm not, though he does wake me up and kiss me goodbye, and often I get up not too long before he leaves. I've offered to get up with him many times over the yrs and make him breakfast, etc. But he prefers to have that time just for him as his quiet time before he starts his day.

    Some guys like to have their time after work, he prefers his before :-)
    sailorwifenmom

    Answer by sailorwifenmom at 6:35 AM on Jan. 25, 2011

  • Yep, but my husband works 2nd shift ;) He leaves around 2:30pm
    how_reb

    Answer by how_reb at 7:03 AM on Jan. 25, 2011

  • before I had my DS I woke up to every sound and would get up with him, these days I dont even hear his alarm go off.. so no I dont.
    cassie_kellison

    Answer by cassie_kellison at 7:13 AM on Jan. 25, 2011

  • He wakes at 5 am , im awake when he gets up but i stay in bed for another hald hour until i have to get up and get the kids ready for school. He doesnt eat breakfast that early , but there are times when he come home after P.T at about 7:30 , thats when ill make us breakfast and spend some time before he goes back. i love those days. We dont get much time alone besides that.
    MsBrazil86

    Answer by MsBrazil86 at 7:18 AM on Jan. 25, 2011

  • Mine is long gone at 5 am.. so I don't wake up. I get up at 6:30 to get my kids ready for school. He gives me a kiss goodbye every morning though.
    Autumn07

    Answer by Autumn07 at 7:35 AM on Jan. 25, 2011

  • No, I don't. I am usually up late trying to clean up, and finish working. So there is no reason for me to wake up at 5am with DH. He doesnt mind either. He usually only leaves enough time to walk the dog, get dressed, and go,lol.
    RheaF

    Answer by RheaF at 7:43 AM on Jan. 25, 2011

  • I do get up with dh ever so often and fix breakfast for him. He leaves around 5:00 a.m and I have to be up by 6:30 with the kids. I don't do it every day..cuz..I don't want him to get spoiled! lol
    Alamama

    Answer by Alamama at 7:55 AM on Jan. 25, 2011

  • Yes..I am usually up before him or soon after he gets up.I start getting our kids going for school and in between I spend some time talking to him while he gets ready for work.
    tnmomofive

    Answer by tnmomofive at 8:00 AM on Jan. 25, 2011

  • no my dh leaves at 5 am he gives me a kiss every morning before he leaves and makes sure i'm awake just enough to know he's leaving.
    Finkette

    Answer by Finkette at 8:16 AM on Jan. 25, 2011

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