I'm going to be getting a divorce and I have a 3 year old and an 19 month old daughters. I had discovered their father was viewing lolicon porn on the computer. A few years before we had kids I caught him reading incest porn stories on the computer. I'm a survivor of childhood sexual abuse and I'm terrified that what happened to me may happen to them if I stay.
My question is this; Do I have a shot of winning sole custody with limited and supervised visitation or am I going to have to deal with some form of joint custody? I'm also worried about how they will view me as they get older if I win sole custody because I will have kept their father away from them. Pro's / Con's anyone?
Asked by Anonymous at 7:52 AM on Jan. 25, 2011 in Parenting Debate
That's a tough question, most courts are not going to keep kids away from their father unless he HAS done something to them. I'm not sure what lolicon porn is....but unless it's child porn, it's legal. As for winning the case.....also tough to answer, nobody can tell you that you're gonna win because nobody can know for certain. If you do win, you'll have to decide on how the kids interact with their father if at all. Good luck.
Answer by how_reb at 7:59 AM on Jan. 25, 2011
Answer by Finkette at 7:59 AM on Jan. 25, 2011
Answer by tyfry7496 at 8:05 AM on Jan. 25, 2011
Answer by JLS2388 at 8:07 AM on Jan. 25, 2011
As the others and myself have said, unless you can prove he has done something to the kids.....it's not likely the courts will take away his visitation. While some legal porn is just beyond my understanding, it doesn't mean that those who like are really sick, twisted and waiting to try it out. I hope things work out for you and the kids!
Answer by how_reb at 8:18 AM on Jan. 25, 2011