My husband and I recently split up. He didn't contact me for 8 days, which means he didn't contact his oldest son. yesterday he left a vm for his son. And some txt messgaes to me about things that will need taken care of. Anyways, late last night he finally gets on facebook and writes something to the efect of his life is falling apart, bad things happen for a reason but it doesn't take the bleeding away. I feel terrible for my babies, esp the 2yr old. My husband has been 1000 miles away for 2 months, but it's still hard on our son. However he made his choice to blow a few thousand dollars in a months time on clubs, strip joints, restaurants, clothing (which is the last thing he needed) and who knows what else. That was our money to move, and he has a history of financial irresponsibility AND lying about where the money is going AND lying about things in general. So I said I'm done.
How do you push through the emotions, like I am sad for him, but I am done with this marriage....too many other issues as well. My empathy always clouds my better judgement and I need to work on that. I see why divorce is truely like a death.
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