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How far would you go sexually to please and keep your so

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Asked by tinamarie1972 at 4:42 PM on Jan. 25, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (33)
  • As far as I already have
    We both decided no butt stuff,no other people

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 4:44 PM on Jan. 25, 2011

  • Well...

    There is no way to use your body (or money, or charming wit, or personal power) to stop anyone from doing what they choose to do. If that's leaving you, it remains past your ability to control.

    Good idea: don't trade your dignity (or your body) to 'keep' a relationship you suspect may be on the verge. For 2 reasons:

    1. even if it works this week, that won't hold for long enough to make the price worth it, and;
    2. if you'll trade that, what won't you trade?

    Answer by LindaClement at 4:44 PM on Jan. 25, 2011

  • I would only go as far as i felt comfortable going. If you tell your SO that your uncomfortable trying something new, and they threaten to leave, it can't be a very good relationship.

    Answer by SolaraDarkset at 4:44 PM on Jan. 25, 2011

  • right up to the point of
    straping one on and pretending to be a transexual male and doing him up his backend=there I draw the line, and leave!

    sad butt true

    Answer by fiatpax at 4:46 PM on Jan. 25, 2011

  • Linda
    wonderful words of wisdom you gave
    yours or from a quote?

    SolaraDarkset- so very trye indeed

    i knew i made the correct choice by leaving (i had no other option)
    bur nice to hear these words to once again confirm my choice

    Answer by fiatpax at 4:49 PM on Jan. 25, 2011

  • you need to discuss boundrys and then you will both know the where the line is drawn.

    Answer by peace013 at 4:53 PM on Jan. 25, 2011

  • Only as far as I feel comfortable. If he wants me to do things that I don't like/don't feel comfortable doing that badly that he would leave me.... he can pack his stuff and go.

    Answer by Namaste17 at 4:53 PM on Jan. 25, 2011

  • My huband and I will be married 18 years in February, together a s a couple for 22 years. As time has gone by we know each other so well it is easy to make each other happy in bed. We do not go to extremes, I would try a lot of different things if we needed or wanted it but never would we invite anyone else in our bed. It is our haven with each other from the world.

    Answer by wdegroot at 4:56 PM on Jan. 25, 2011

  • I would do almost anything but I would not bring another into my bedroom.

    Answer by Darla47 at 5:07 PM on Jan. 25, 2011

  • As far as I normally would.

    Answer by LiLJeni at 5:27 PM on Jan. 25, 2011

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