Is it too much to ask your spouse when they'll be home? Do you get upset when they aren't home when you were expecting them or even later than that?
For example, my husband had school today from 9-2. It takes him about 15 min to get out of the campus and another 30-45 to get home depending on traffic. So I don't usually even think about him being home until 3 rolls around.
It's 4:15 right now and he's not home. I'm here with the kids....I have been all day. I don't mind. But What bothers me most, is he just does what he is going to do. If he has something to do, it's not "I should let my wife know what's going on at least"....it's just go and do when he's not home.
I am the total opposite. I believe it's out of respect to let him know where I plan on going, and when I come back....to ask if he has anywhere he needs to be for church, school, work or otherwise.
So, this has pretty much always been a problem and I've expressed my feelings MULTIPLE times about it...it always reverts back to me waiting, wondering....and waiting some more.
Any ideas? What's normal between you and your husband or s/o?
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