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Why do men like to use sex for love and not real love for love

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tinamarie1972

Asked by tinamarie1972 at 8:31 PM on Jan. 25, 2011 in Relationships

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  • Because thats how they were made.
    gulfcoastmom4

    Answer by gulfcoastmom4 at 8:34 PM on Jan. 25, 2011

  • lol i ask that every gosh darn day!!!!
    mommyoftristan

    Answer by mommyoftristan at 8:35 PM on Jan. 25, 2011

  • Not sure but it is rude and it is wrong and the ones who do it are the ones who kill me. When they pull the "why me" card. Do they not understand what comes around goes around???
    AmI88

    Answer by AmI88 at 8:36 PM on Jan. 25, 2011

  • da men have small brains they only have time think of food ,beer,sex oh yes must pee
    if they say they love you had to pay with sex
    but this only goes for men under age 5oyrs
    when they hit 51 and up it is only food, pee ,sleep and more pee
    and back rub they don't get turn on like the rest of us
    dutchcanadain

    Answer by dutchcanadain at 8:36 PM on Jan. 25, 2011

  • BC many of them think sex IS love
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 8:44 PM on Jan. 25, 2011

  • My thoughts do vary on your question.


    First thought. I actually think more women use sex for love then men do. More women use sex to get love than men do. More women think sex and love are synonymous where men think the opposite. More women believe that you have sex in the confines of "love" than just to do it.  So, in many ways, women actually use sex for love than men do.


    Second thought. Many men, show their love via sex. Sex also (due to the chemical/hormonal releases) makes them feel more loving towards their partner and want to be with them. Sex actually reinforces their emotional connection. So to some men, sex is love, is the act of showing/sharing their love.


    Third thought.. What is "real love for love?" There is no one single universal real or true way to love or show love. Each person has their own idea of "real love for love".

    pixie_trix

    Answer by pixie_trix at 8:56 PM on Jan. 25, 2011

  • 1. You are generalizing.
    2. Because sex is an expression of love and affection.
    Mousuke

    Answer by Mousuke at 9:50 PM on Jan. 25, 2011

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