My SO and I have been together for 2 years, almost 3. He can not spend quality time with me. By this I mean we never have adult conversations, if i don't volunteer information about my day/life he doesn't ask or care to know. When I do tell him he rarely responds, just sits there in awkward silence till I get annoyed and move on to something else. If I want to watch tv with him I have to watch what entertains him. If I put on a tv show he won't just indulge me for 30 minutes and watch it, he falls asleep, plays with his cell phone, or gets on the computer. We don't do family dinners regularly because he works afternoons, so he's gone 3pm-midnight. On his days off its pulling teeth to get him to do any family activity. I feel like its me and my son living one life, he lives his, and it just so happens we live in the same house. We're expecting our first child, (my son is from a previous relationship) and most of this behavior is relatively new. He never takes me out to dinner anymore, there's no more random flowers, the only time i hear "love you" is when i bitch about him not saying it. I've straight up asked him if he's not happy and wanting to leave, he swears up and down he has no idea what i'm talking about and loves me more then anything. He's not abusive in any way, he's just not interested in anything I say or do. I swear I could walk into a room naked and he'd rather stare at the solitaire on his phone... oh wait, that actually happened yesterday. Am I letting my hormones take over by feeling like I'm not wanted, or would you feel not wanted too. Anyone ever been through this with their SO and know where I should go next/what to do?
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