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how old were you when first had sex? do you think it was too young?
me, i was 17 & i wish i had waited! he was a total loser!


Asked by sandjmom99 at 10:40 PM on Jan. 25, 2011 in Health

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Answers (22)
  • I had just turned 23, and it was with my (now) husband. I'm glad I waited, it was nice to know I loved this man in a forever kind of way. But I also feel like I might have been a little uptight when I was younger. Of course, the boyfriends that I lost because I wouldn't have sex, probably aren't the guys I would have enjoyed having sex with anyway. So, I'll stand by my decision.

    Answer by blu_canary at 10:45 PM on Jan. 25, 2011

  • 14, wish I had waited. I was totally sexually educated but naive. He said, "we should have sex, or at least let me eat you out" and I wasn't sure what that was so I had sex instead lol. My husband should throw that choice out more often.

    Answer by katey1211 at 10:43 PM on Jan. 25, 2011

  • It was with my husband at 22

    Answer by 1911 at 10:42 PM on Jan. 25, 2011

  • I was 17, also.
    I don't wish I waited because it was a life experience, even though he was also a loser. ;-)

    Answer by SpaceToast at 10:42 PM on Jan. 25, 2011

  • I was 16 and I too wish I had reasoning for wanting to have sex at that age was purely the desire to be loved.
    Something I'm still searching for and can't find with sex.

    Answer by Missikat75 at 10:42 PM on Jan. 25, 2011

  • I was 14 and yes it was very young but I stayed with the same guy for almost 4 yrs.

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 10:42 PM on Jan. 25, 2011

  • I did at 16 b/c I let him push me into it. I wish that I had the self confidence that I have now and been able to say NO.

    Answer by coala at 10:44 PM on Jan. 25, 2011

  • I was raped at 14.....the first time I had consensual sex was at 16...

    Answer by tracylyn245 at 10:44 PM on Jan. 25, 2011

  • I was 14 and I pushed my boyfriend into it...I made him cry. We were together for a year after that. I don't regret it.

    Answer by ashisamom at 10:48 PM on Jan. 25, 2011

  • I was 18. I waited until i was in love. Looking back I know it wasn't "real" love. I don't think i was young compared to all the girls i knew but I wish I would have waited longer.

    Answer by whitefamily at 10:48 PM on Jan. 25, 2011