Were you scared of letting another man into your life, your childs? I'm terrified; will he treat my son the same even if we have a biological child? will he end up being my ex all over again? will he wake up and realize that I'm a mom, I'm not cool anymore, I'm not exciting, my child will always come first....I can't seem to stop stressing over these questions and more. Help! how did you come to grips with it? How did you decide to let him into your child's life? And WHEN did you let him meet your child? did you 'just know' (I have a bad track record with men obviously, so I'm not sure how much I trust my gut)? Any advice you have would be really appreciated, I know there's alot of questions on here.Answer Question
Answer by Scuba at 12:07 AM on Jan. 26, 2011
First of all see on limited "play dates" at the movies, Chucky Cheese, the Park, Ice Skating, Snow ball fights, baking cookies...how acts with your child. If he is Excellent with your child, he will melt your heart and elevate your fears.
That's when you know "he's the one".
My guy is GREAT with my son...but I was uncertain at first too but the more I watched him with my boy..the more certain I became.
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