I'm sure many of you will say "when you ask that question!" and I guess I partially agree.
DH and I have been married for almost 5 yrs and I feel like we've been in this perpetual cycle... everything's fine, then he starts drinking and staying out, I get upset about it and give him an ultimatum (which obviously I haven't stuck to), he is fine for a while and I forgive him, but it starts all over again... and it just goes around and around.
My dillema is that I have stuck with him through drugs, rehab, cheating (he kissed someone else), leaving me 4x, losing a business, alcoholism... I have forgiven him time and time again, given him numerous chances, and I feel like I've had enough. I realize that he doesn't truly want to change b/c he's never even really tried.
Ladies... should I give it another go or just give it up?
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