He told his mom of our wedding just one day before we visited her for the first time. We had an exclusive relationship for abt 2 years. She was not friendly or affectionate with me.
On New Year's Eve, his best friend's wife flirted with him all night long, touched him with her hands and b@@bs, and he said nothing.
She's 60 years old, my guy is 52, and I'm 35: She could be my Mom !!!!
I felt lonely and neglected.
He acts like a kind little boy scout and flatters other women, often older and married, in a shy, caring way. I know he's got mother issues.
His mom is selfish, demanding and strict. She uses motherhood and religion to manipulate her children. Her gifts / ornaments to her son (my man) have stickers with her name " From mommy with love to my little boy". He's 52.
Her wedding & Xmas gift to me was a small Recipe Book - to make sure that I take care of her boy. By the way, 2 months before her gift, I got her jewellery and clothes.
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I'm suffocating. I left my man weeks ago, as I felt lonely and unloved. He cried, his hair got grey, and called me every night to say he 's sorry I was hurt. He wanted us to start all over again.
Now I'm back, but any discussion about his friends and family is "Ouch", oh so sensitive, I'm not sure I can get over things. I feel angry.
PLEASE HELP. I love him dearly, he's a good guy but he's hurt me so much.
Asked by Anonymous at 10:20 AM on Jan. 26, 2011 in Relationships
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