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would u consider this cheating

would you consider it cheating if you found your s/o texted other women sexual msgs and dirty pics of himself and she would send dirty pics of herself. i consider it cheating.

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tanper29

Asked by tanper29 at 12:25 PM on Jan. 26, 2011 in Relationships

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  • Yep I do too
    gemgem

    Answer by gemgem at 12:25 PM on Jan. 26, 2011

  • my definition of cheating is if you have to hide it's cheating.
    tanper29

    Comment by tanper29 (original poster) at 12:26 PM on Jan. 26, 2011

  • HELL YEAH!!!!
    klhoe

    Answer by klhoe at 12:26 PM on Jan. 26, 2011

  • Yes
    buzymamaof3

    Answer by buzymamaof3 at 12:27 PM on Jan. 26, 2011

  • Yes and he would have a lot of explaining to do and a lot of being checked up on. And he would lose the right to complain about me asking him 20 questions for everytime he leaves ro gets a call/text.
    Jademom07

    Answer by Jademom07 at 12:27 PM on Jan. 26, 2011

  • Definitely! That's crossing the line.
    thatgirl70

    Answer by thatgirl70 at 12:27 PM on Jan. 26, 2011

  • It's certainly a violation of trust, and very disrespectful of you and your relationship. I'd say that qualifies as cheating.
    Scuba

    Answer by Scuba at 12:27 PM on Jan. 26, 2011

  • YES!! I would be SO HURT! That's unacceptable!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:28 PM on Jan. 26, 2011

  • thats emotional cheating. while he's not physically having sex with her, he's implicating that he wants to and giving her the same idea, therefore, betraying your trust and commitment he has with you.
    tnm786

    Answer by tnm786 at 12:28 PM on Jan. 26, 2011

  • thank you ladies. nice to know im not over reacting in the least. i have been through this so many times with him it's not even funny. i actually thought he had stopped. and for awhile he had but now i'm thingking he just stopped to bide his time. build up the trust again just to destroy it. i am so angry and hurt right now.
    tanper29

    Comment by tanper29 (original poster) at 12:35 PM on Jan. 26, 2011

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