I have who I would like to think is a friend. BUT lately it seems as though she is trying to "plant seeds of doubt" in my head about my SO. I thought I was pregnant and was worried about telling my SO, she always was reassuring me he is a good guy and don't worry about it. THEN when I thought I was for sure pregnant because of how I was getting sick in the mornings (I now know I am not, hormons are out of whack) it is like she changed her story. Saying things such as "well you are scared to tell him , he just might bolt." Just all this negative stuff when she was saying the complete opposite. Then when I mentioned telling him I was in love with him she started on that as well talking about "four months sure is a long time what is waiting on he is to slow," she encouraged me to tell him at first NOW she is saying "maybe you can just say I like you a lot". Then she proceedes to say "But I guess he is worth it" after she has done told me herself that "he is a good man" and that "sometimes I am just to hard on him."
Are you kidding me??? First of she is telling me he is a good man, then all the sudden she is telling me something different?? Now that I am more than likely not pregnant she is posting baby stuff on her Facebook.
I know I am the one dating him and it really only matters what I think. BUT what kind of friend would do this?? I didn't think "friends" were suppose to play what seems to be a game and trying to plant seeds of doubt and make you try and second guess things. When she knows I just dumped another friend because of all this. What could possibly be her deal??
Answer by Raine2001 at 8:02 PM on Jan. 26, 2011
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