I got married to the guy whom i loved after conversion into islam according to islamic law as an arranged marriage. I decided to marry him only after his full consent to get converted as muslim. It has been one and years since our marriage. He promised at the time of marriage to convert his name leagally (i.e.to the new name kept) after his sister gets married but will follow islam. His sister is getting married soon. But now he disagrees to change his name through gazatte. He is argueing that he will not be able to answer everyone including his parents. When asked why he promised he says he promised without thinking about these things in a hurry. He also do not show much interest in foolowing islam. He makes to the jumma out of my insistance only. I am sure that he do not believe in idol worship. I have a little hope but still lot of confusions. We are happy and quite understanding and he has never been against me on following islam. Our marriage is not registered yet, as i am very sure not to get registered in his hindu name and he is not ready for the viceversa as it requires gazaette because of which he is not able for a passport. As i want atleast my name in the spouse coloumn along with his hindu name as a legal security. I have made it very clear that i will grow our children in the islamic way and give only his muslim name as father's name right from the birth certificate......etc.. To which he has agreed. We don't have children yet. My question is what will happen to the children if something goes wrong between our us in future. Do we have legal rights as his wife and children? And will my children have rights in his property as per islamic law and indian law?Can i retain the children myself arguing in the above grounds? I have my name included as his wife only in documents related to his office and loan. We don't have ration card in our existing names, our names remain included in our family ration card respectively as it was before our marriage. He is also not interested to apply for separation of it yet even after i insisting on it. He tries to hide from the outside world that he has been converted and considres it as his symbol of prestige. Otherwise his very kind take very good care about me.. I am much concerned to live a life according to the Holy Quran and end up on the right side on the day of judement...... What shall i do?
Help me with your suggestions.........
Asked by Anonymous at 2:13 AM on Jan. 27, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by Marianne140 at 2:28 AM on Jan. 27, 2011
Answer by Marianne140 at 3:32 AM on Jan. 27, 2011
Answer by SweetLoveofMine at 3:41 AM on Jan. 27, 2011
Answer by QueenAdeela at 3:50 AM on Jan. 27, 2011
He obviously changed his mind, now you have to decide if you love him enough not to care.
Answer by peace013 at 11:14 AM on Jan. 27, 2011
Answer by JackieGirl007 at 8:43 PM on Jan. 27, 2011