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Is it time to call it quits?

Me and SO/baby father have been back together almost a month havent seen him for almost 2wks and we dont talk regularly i dont really see any effort on his part to change this and the relationship is awkward all together, should i jus move on? I (cont)

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 5:07 AM on Jan. 27, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (13)
  • Talk to him openly and honestly and ask him where he would like the relationship to go.
    SweetLoveofMine

    Answer by SweetLoveofMine at 5:36 AM on Jan. 27, 2011

  • keep movin on
    smiley745

    Answer by smiley745 at 6:46 AM on Jan. 27, 2011

  • Dont give up yet....no ones cheated, or anything awful. So I wouldnt think its time to call it quits. Relationships are hard just give it some time, he is your childs father. Like the other girls said talk to him about how your feeling. Just an opinion....:)
    nat375

    Answer by nat375 at 7:30 AM on Jan. 27, 2011

  • Love him but he's not even trying imo and idt the connection is there anymore. Time to give up?
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 5:08 AM on Jan. 27, 2011

  • Talk to him about the relationship and see where he is expecting it to go. If you're already not talking much or he has shown no effort regarding the relationship, that would be an indication that you should move on.
    virgo550

    Answer by virgo550 at 7:20 AM on Jan. 27, 2011

  • It time for you to move on because if he really wanted to be with you he would call or show up and even show up to see his own child.
    tinamarie1972

    Answer by tinamarie1972 at 8:03 AM on Jan. 27, 2011

  • No, you have a baby who needs a dad. So you should do everything possible to make this work. Were it not for the child, I would say to forget about him. The saddest part of this whole thing is that he has probably already called it quits, and you won't have a choice in the matter.
    NannyB.

    Answer by NannyB. at 8:04 AM on Jan. 27, 2011

  • You need to talk to him and do what you feel is right.
    BUTTERCUP777

    Answer by BUTTERCUP777 at 8:38 AM on Jan. 27, 2011

  • Try to work it out for the baby.
    MKSers

    Answer by MKSers at 8:42 AM on Jan. 27, 2011

  • You can't do anything until you've spoken to him, as someone said, openly and honestly. Staying together for the baby's sake, in my opinion, doesn't work. You can both be good parents without being together.
    MeggieSwan

    Answer by MeggieSwan at 9:34 AM on Jan. 27, 2011

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