I had Kid #3 six weeks go, and during the entire pregnancy I was on pelvic rest, so therefore no sex. So it's been almost a year since my husband and I have been intimate. He was never one for things like BJs or HJs anyway, so when I say we haven't been intimate, I mean, we haven't touched one another sexually at all. I had my six-week-followup appointment and was cleared for action, and I texted my husband to let him know. He texted back "We need to talk". So I got home before he did, and got all spruced up and pretty and he came home and sat me down and told me that he is done with sex. Period. He said he actually enjoyed not having to think about sex or have it the entire pregnancy, that it was a relief. He said that he always did enjoy having sex, but once he experienced not having it, he discovered that he just didn't want to have to anymore. He said he loves me and everything and will be with me and our kids, but he just doesn't want to have sex anymore. Before you suggest it, he's not cheating, nor is he gay.
I am absolutely destroyed. I have no idea how to feel about this, what to think, or what to do next.
Asked by Anonymous at 8:00 AM on Jan. 27, 2011 in Relationships
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Answer by Roisin07 at 8:09 AM on Jan. 27, 2011
Crass as it sounds, there is a lot of truth to the saying "use it or lose it". It sound like his libido needs jump starting and you would know best how to do that. Talking to a doctor wouldn't hurt either. GL!
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