My husband and I have been married for 4 years, together for 5. We have a fairly...boring...sex life, I guess. We hardly ever try anything new, and it's my fault. He's constantly mentioning stuff he would like to try. Honestly, I would LOVE to try new things. I guess I'm just a bit, I don't know, shy. I don't like the way I look so I try to keep it so I don't have to bare a lot of skin or be in too much light. I know my husband loves me and thinks I'm beautiful, but it's my self-consciousness that's getting in the way. I'm working on losing weight, and I think after I do that and I'm more comfortable with the way I look, things would be different. But until then...
I would LOVE to step outside my comfort zone and try new things in the bedroom, I just don't know how to get over my "fear" of it, I guess. It takes a lot...A LOT...of begging just for my husband to get me on top, that's how bad it is.
What do I do?
Asked by Anonymous at 10:50 AM on Jan. 27, 2011 in Relationships
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