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Why is it that when you meet a man they are the kind of men that just like to chill and dont go out and have fun?

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Asked by tinamarie1972 at 2:28 PM on Jan. 27, 2011 in Relationships

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  • Because they are increasingly lazy and cheap!

    Answer by misses_nick at 2:30 PM on Jan. 27, 2011

  • Sounds like you are not picking the right kind of guys!

    Answer by Tarrar at 2:32 PM on Jan. 27, 2011


    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 2:34 PM on Jan. 27, 2011

  • huh? I'm a homebody, and don't believe in frivolous spending (ie "going out"). Its asinine that with a family, people still do this as though money grows on trees... Sounds like you're in need of a reality check.

    Answer by ObbyDobbie at 2:35 PM on Jan. 27, 2011

  • Because they get comfortable and then would rather stay home than go out and have fun

    Answer by andrea2280 at 2:35 PM on Jan. 27, 2011

  • It's about the men you choose. You can go out and not spend tons of money.

    Answer by missanc at 2:36 PM on Jan. 27, 2011

  • Maybe it is there way of saying they want to settle down? I read a study about "what men want women to know" and that question was in there. Normally, men who are home bodies are settled or want to settle with the right one. It's his way of "showing" his committment to you. My fiance and I had the same issue till I told him to get his ass off the couch and take me out :P

    Answer by October_Rayne at 2:36 PM on Jan. 27, 2011

  • oh wow..could i get one of those? (when i was single, that is)..i'm the homebody, and when i was single, i worked 10hrs/day/5days/wk..i was tired! i would get all gussied up just to go out with them, all dang night..why did i bother??
    no thanks!

    Answer by dullscissors at 2:46 PM on Jan. 27, 2011

  • Sounds like you're meeting men that you don't connect with. Try again.

    Answer by SweetLuci at 3:46 PM on Jan. 27, 2011

  • Because they don't want to spend money ~

    Answer by tasches at 4:58 PM on Jan. 27, 2011

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