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Anyone else here living in a sexless marriage? adult content

My husband hasn't had sex with me in 9 months and I am so confused and frustrated. He is starting therapy next week so that we can fix the problem. He finally admitted that he needs help! Before that it was all about how I needed to fix this and that.

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Asked by Heatherblossom at 2:54 PM on Jan. 27, 2011 in Relationships

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  • fingers crossedNo, but just wanted to tell you both good luck!


    Answer by rebeccadac at 2:56 PM on Jan. 27, 2011

  • I am so sorry! Glad that he is getting the help he needs. Best of luck to you. Here's a bump.

    Answer by Scuba at 2:56 PM on Jan. 27, 2011

  • Yes after ten years I am done take care of it now.

    Answer by pinkdragon36 at 2:59 PM on Jan. 27, 2011

  • Therapy will help. At least it's something fixable! Mine has fractured vertebrae from a motorcycle accident seven years ago... that's a sex killer. But he's seeing a new specialist in a few weeks so we'll see. Not holding my breath, though.

    Answer by gdiamante at 3:06 PM on Jan. 27, 2011

  • pinkdragon - Are you leaving the relationship?

    Comment by Heatherblossom (original poster) at 3:07 PM on Jan. 27, 2011

  • gdiamante - I'm so sorry to hear that! I hope the specialist can help!

    Comment by Heatherblossom (original poster) at 3:09 PM on Jan. 27, 2011

  • my poor hubby has it rough. i have fibromyalgia and by the time he gets home im in so much pain it doesnt happen often enough in our house.

    Answer by knagsmom at 3:12 PM on Jan. 27, 2011

  • ~*Nope*~... hubby puts his hands on me DAILY... going on 13 years and he's still easily turned on by me... hahaha

    ~*I NEED A BREAK*~

    Answer by MommaClark3 at 3:13 PM on Jan. 27, 2011

  • I was in the same boat when I was married. Sad to say but we are no longer married, but I found a "friend" that has opened up my mind to he beauty of sex

    Answer by MChildressDem at 3:24 PM on Jan. 27, 2011

  • hugs I am but I cut him off. I'm looking at divorcing as soon as I am able to do so. It's not easy. It's almost enough for me to call the whole divorce off...but I'm not going to do that.


    Answer by isabellalecour at 5:19 PM on Jan. 27, 2011

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