Around this time of year especially, everyone focuses so hard on romance and love relationships, marriages or dating or will he propose....
Is it completely out of whack to NOT want to be in a relationship? Sure, I don't have a partner or helpmate, but I didn't have that when I was married, so I guess I don't know what's missing. I don't have to deal with another person's schedule, likes/dislikes, laundry, dishes, blanket hogging, TV habits, and input on everything. No more comments about how I look with my mudmask on, or whether my socks and pajamas are unsexy for bedtime. If no one compliments my cooking, it's because there's no audience, not just an ungrateful one.
I have friends for company and companionship and no real interest in sex anymore. I can change my own oil and lightbulbs, take out my own trash and open my own jars.
So why does everyone keep acting like I'm incomplete and unfulfilled if I'm actually happier on my own?
Answer by amybaby_19 at 5:10 PM on Jan. 27, 2011
Answer by NannyB. at 5:11 PM on Jan. 27, 2011
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Answer by Caring1 at 5:20 PM on Jan. 27, 2011
being single and independent and finding out who you are is key. I'm so glad that i'm taking this time for me because my son doesn't need to see mommy with a whole bunch of different guys. besides i can throw a football better than daddy any day. : )
Answer by Bugzmomma at 5:23 PM on Jan. 27, 2011
Answer by Lynnsae at 5:24 PM on Jan. 27, 2011
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Answer by 21lisa72 at 12:43 AM on Jan. 28, 2011