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I have been feeling pretty crappy lately so me and the husband haven't been having sex this week.
How do you get in the mood to have sex when you are tired and achy?
Do you have sex or not?
If you do have sex anyway how do you find a way to get in the mood?

I need help!


Asked by 1911 at 9:08 PM on Jan. 27, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (6)
  • foreplay? Usually kicks people into gear. If you feel crappy, depends on what the ache is as for the ailment. ((TMI)) Oddly enough, if I have a horrible headache, intimacy becomes a cure. Over excited to stop breathing and bam, headache is gone lol...don't know why, but it works for me. Sinuses, cramps, or just overall puke fest, sick as a go lol. So, answering your questions, tired and can start with a massage...or foreplay where it distracts you from pain. Only have sex IF you are both able. If you are sick as a dog...I'd opt out. Foreplay gets one in the mood lol. Just a thought.... -giggles and blushes-

    Answer by Imortlmommy at 9:21 PM on Jan. 27, 2011

  • I am totally the same way. I'm always tired and I just don't feel like it!! Sometimes foreplay helps. I still haven't found anything that really helps. If you do please fill me in:)

    Answer by cl1998 at 9:31 PM on Jan. 27, 2011

  • I just give in go with the flow and hope it will be a quickie

    Answer by 21lisa72 at 9:40 PM on Jan. 27, 2011

  • Tell him to hug you and kiss you... on the mouth.
    p.s. french kiss

    Answer by klhoe at 9:37 PM on Jan. 27, 2011

  • If I feel like crap, we don't have sex.

    Answer by Fistandantalus at 6:51 AM on Jan. 28, 2011

  • I am having sinus drainage and i am having cramps on and off for some unknown reason.

    Comment by 1911 (original poster) at 9:24 PM on Jan. 27, 2011