I am living with my daughter who is about to be 31 next week. We share the bills and housekeeping duties with me babysitting my grandson. I am remarried and she will be getting married next Oct. Her husband to be is ok to continue this situation as they both work in health care and work odd hours. It's very convenient for me to be there in the house for babysitting, no having to cart kids around.
My question is that my ex tell me I'm pathetic for not earning my own living and I should get a real job and get out of my daughters house. What do you think?
I think your ex needs to mind his own business. I wouldn't talk to him at all. I would have loved to have had you helping me out with my kids when I was working outside of the home! Just laugh at him like he's the most ridiculous thing you've ever heard when he says crap like that. Make him out to be the crazy one. Act like it doesn't bother you one bit what his opinion is of you.
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Frankly I think your Ex should keep his nose in HIS house and HIS business and not stick it into you/daughter's business!! The ONLY people who need to be concerned about your living arrangements and have a 'say' in it are you, your daughter, and the men in your lives (spouse/fiance). IF you and your daughter (and the men in your lives) are all ok with the current living arrangements, everyone is getting along, and the household is running smoothly, then why change? I'd tell the ex to shut up and mind his own business!
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