My ex was arrested the 16th for DV. THis has been going on for 3 years. I have a no contact and a protection order against him. He was still having family members try to contact me so he could see his son. My dumbass felt guilty so I let him see his son. He actually spent the night here last night. (stupid I know please don't bash, this is hard enough) We have court coming up soon and he is telling me not to go so he won't get charged. I feel he needs to but he has me doubting myself and feeling guilty. He has never hurt our son and I know he wouldn't and I would never keep my son from him but I think he needs serious counseling. Alcohol/DV/anger management treatment. I don't want to send him to jail because I know he will lose his job but I also am sick of him getting away with this. I have no desire to be with him anymore and am looking at places tro move.
My question is... is there away that I can write a letter to the judge or prosecuter saying I think he needs help and not jail time? I'm not trying to be evil about this I just want him out of my life and to get help...
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