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Daughter caught kissing girls at school 3rd time what to do?

I am asking for a friend her daughter has been caught kissing a girl at school three times & now the school wants her to see a psychologist what do you guys think something to worry about or is it something they should handle at home she is in kindergarten


Asked by ExtremlyUnique at 3:11 PM on Jan. 28, 2011 in School-Age Kids (5-8)

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  • well if my 5 or 6 year old was kissing anyone at school (boy or girl) i'd try my best to explain to her that it's not something we do in school

    Answer by josiesmommy00 at 3:12 PM on Jan. 28, 2011

  • I would def talk to her, but be very concerned. I would make sure nothing is going on in my home or else where they I dont know about. It could just be something she is doing...but as a parent its your job to find out if there is anything behind it.

    Answer by bellamommyof4 at 3:17 PM on Jan. 28, 2011

  • totally normal There may even be a few weddings or two. Just a gentle reminder that kisses are for family and not our school friends.

    Answer by tomib at 3:28 PM on Jan. 28, 2011

  • If I were the parent I would have a serious discussion about appropriate behavior and I would need to know what kind of kissing. If the school is recommend counseling, that is what she should do.

    Answer by spottedpony at 3:18 PM on Jan. 28, 2011

  • i would just talk to her and tell her that kissing people at school isn't appropriate


    Answer by tiffanyv123 at 3:33 PM on Jan. 28, 2011

  • I wouldn't say counsaling or physcology in this case. She is being explorative. I would have a discussion with her about discression though. I agree not the most appropriate place. If you get on her about it hard I think she is going to rebel against you. If you talk to her maybe she will open up to you. It could be just a phase she is going through and exploring. Or it could be a life choice for her (can't tell as of yet). Either way I say talk to her calmly and see if she will talk back. If you put her through counsaling I think it could hurt her emotionally (mom doesn't approve of me because I kissed a girl).

    Answer by MamaWolf1981 at 3:28 PM on Jan. 28, 2011

  • ask her how she feels when she kisses them ? and take it from there. its probablyjust a friendly thing i wouldnt worry to much about it, but i would let her know that is not something she should do in school.

    Answer by kaidensxmommy24 at 3:31 PM on Jan. 28, 2011