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What would you do if your s/o was?

texting another woman and flirting?

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Asked by iam4you2 at 9:08 PM on Jan. 28, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (16)
  • I'd be horrified and it'd be unacceptable!

    Answer by hibbingmom at 9:09 PM on Jan. 28, 2011

  • When we were together he used to do it all the time. Random women he'd meet when he went out. One of the many reasons we're not together anymore.

    Answer by myree85 at 9:10 PM on Jan. 28, 2011

  • In my marriage. Which is the only one I can speak

    Flirting with someone/engaging in those types of actions/behaviors with another person outside of our marriage is infidelity. Listed as such on our post nuptial agreement and grounds for immediate divorce.

    So. Just like with the "cybering". If my husband was engaging in this type of actions/behaviours, I would divorce hijm.

    Answer by pixie_trix at 9:10 PM on Jan. 28, 2011

  • Break his damn phone and throw him out on his ass

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 9:11 PM on Jan. 28, 2011

  • I'd demand that he text her in front of you, showing the text where he tells her that he will no longer be texting her, he is going to start to be respectful of his marriage and his wife, and she should no longer contact him as well.

    Answer by amybaby_19 at 9:13 PM on Jan. 28, 2011

  • It will never happen. I actually have a husband that respect our marriage.

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:21 PM on Jan. 28, 2011

  • Again, that's cheating. I will not try to save a marriage to a cheater.

    Answer by Orionsgirl at 9:21 PM on Jan. 28, 2011

  • Dealt with this before...told him its your family or your phone. He chose his family

    Answer by confusedagain at 9:32 PM on Jan. 28, 2011

  • my husband wouldnt do that cause i am a scary woman ha ha ha..

    Answer by mrssundin at 10:04 PM on Jan. 28, 2011

  • Tell him "it's either her or me, not both"! Make him choose and then stick by his decision.

    Answer by etexmom at 10:08 PM on Jan. 28, 2011

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