My dad sexually abused me and physically abused my mom, brother, and me when we were kids. I forgave him but never trusted him. I kept him at a distance from my kids to protect them. Still, I kept in contact with him to know what he was doing, how he was doing. My brother stopped talking to him altogether a couple years ago.
When our mom died, I basicly had to take care of everything. When she was sick, I handled it. When my brother lost his home, I took him in. Now he is 1000 miles away. So of course, I am again having to take care of everything. I am also recovering from major surgery.
We are so beyond broke right now plus I am exhausted. I asked my brother if he cant
come and help, can he at least help with costs. He refuses. says he doesnt have it yet they can afford 2 cruises a year??? My dad was found in his home dead. He had apparently been there 3 days ( it wasnt unusual to not hear from him everyday, so i wasnt worried) i had talked to him on fri. he died on monday and was found wed. I loved him but I wasnt always nice to him because of the hell he put us thru. I just want to give him a proper
goodbye. He had to be cremated because of the decomp. I feel so sick. My husband and I will have to go into
the house to clean and to go thru dads papers and all. My brother has abandoned me as usual. He leaves me to handle it all. I am so pissed right now and hurting.
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