I am assuming your daughter is between the age of 9-12. I would find out the circumstances to both things. Who did she kiss, how and why it happened. Then whose penis did she see, and under what circumstances. Did some one flash her, make her touch, etc. Then I would think you should sit her down and see what her understanding is of all of that. Then start explaining the birds and the bees. The do's and the do nots. Don't be too shocked, kids are learning so much now a days at such a young age. Just last night doing spelling words, my son wrote Chop the chips. He's 6. Hubby says write Chop the nuts. And my son fell oout on the floor laughing. He thought nuts as testicles. So hubby says how do you know about that, you are way to young. Be as open with your little girl so she feels comfortable enough to come to you about anything pertaining to boys or sex. Good luck momma.....
at 9:18 PM on Nov. 14, 2008