So I have a cousin who is a bit older than me. I'm 19, she is 20. A while ago she posted one sonogram pic on FB and then took it off, she said it was a joke. Okay fast forward a bit. She lives in another state from me but we have always remained close. She has cut off quite a bit of contact with us.
She has a daughter 6 weeks younger than my son, everyone thinks she got pregnant because I got pregnant. She went thru the DNA testing etc to be sure on the father. I know I was 18 when I had my son, and yes I am a younger mom, but when I got preg I had already been with my SO 3years, we lived alone for 1 year previous, I am in college, was able to be a SAHM etc. I didn't just go get pregnant by some random because I was in some fake competition.
She NEVER has her daughter, or scratch that, she has her maybe one or two nights a week. Her mom always has her daughter. Or she is always in daycare. The dad and her are 'together' but it is clear to everyone that he is using her.
They have had the cops called to their house quite a few times, we suspect that he hits her, based on some info my grandma is telling me. In fact today the cops were just over again. Coffee tables have been broken, big screen flat screen tv's have been broken, entertainment systems have been broken, etc
She also just got in a physical altercation a week ago where she was punched in the stomach and was throwing up from it.
OMG it goes on. We just found out she wanted an abortion but couldn't afford one, she is now 5, almost 6 mos pregnant. smh wtf I am just overly dissappointed in her, if she lived closer to me I would help, I am in california, she is in texas, but I simply can't do much for her.
Her baby's father has 4 other children, maybe 3, not sure, but 3 for sure, then her daughter so this will be for suer his 5th, maybe his 6th. He doesn't pay child support for any of the others, we're pretty sure he still messes with his ex because he has spent nights over there, by admission of my cousin she knows he's been there.
My aunt, her mom, is so mad because she basically raises her daughter. Pays for almost half of their bills AND pays for the little girls health care. So now what will happen with this baby. A baby she doesn't even want? I don't know. This is fucking INSANE
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