so my "little" brother recently announced that his girlfriend is pregnant ( my parents, my husband and I were there ) ... I guess he and his gf got mad that nobody jumped for joy when they announced it ( none of us are pleased because of their history - his gf is very lazy, lies, and they are on and off every other week --- not to mention this isnt the first time she said she was pregnant so they could get back together) ....
So they basically got mad and yelled at my parents and left...
A couple weeks went by and I felt bad ( i was afterall a teen mom and I remember the feeling of no one being happy at first ) , so I went and bought a bassinet ( light grey with white poka dots, since they do not know the gender yet ) and filled it with white, yellow, and light green onsies and sleepers, a pack of bottles, some wipes, and 2 cute little stuffed animals... I tried to make it very cute and "present-y" and this was basically my way of saying I would be happy for them ...
I took it over to their apt. my brother was at work so I gave it to her and say down to ask her how she was feeling and such ( to have a conversation with her ) ... she then asked me if I kept the recipt because she wanted to be the one to buy the bassinet... I said I didnt keep it but that she can still get another, since they have a 2 story apt. they should keep one upstairs and one downstairs ( i told her it was a life saver when I had my kids because we have a big 2 story house ) ... she said "whatever, I can always sell it in a yard sale" ... she then told me that she wished I wouldnt buy her child clothes because it is a waste because she knows she is having girl ( she is 7 weeks and doesnt know the gender yet ) and her "babygirl" will not be wearing green and yellow ..... After that I was just so mad, I took the bassinet with me and told her I will just give it my my friend who would be alot more greatful for a little help .
Asked by Anonymous at 11:39 PM on Jan. 29, 2011 in Parenting Debate
Answer by hibbingmom at 11:43 PM on Jan. 29, 2011
Answer by hoping73 at 11:46 PM on Jan. 29, 2011
Answer by beyondhopes at 11:57 PM on Jan. 29, 2011
Take this from where it comes. 7 weeks??? OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am sorry. Lord knows it sounds as if you have you hands full or not? Let this issue go sweetie. She sounds like a candidate for a straight jacket. Time will tell. Let your brother know you care about both of them etc...If you avoid her fine just don't ever admit to it. Keep in touch. Let me know I will be thinking about you. Good grief!!!!!!!!!
Answer by rosetoes at 12:00 AM on Jan. 30, 2011
Answer by blueberry1 at 12:02 AM on Jan. 30, 2011
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