So, my DH is a hard working guy. Going for his masters...yada yada yada.
All he does on his down time is play World of Warcraft (WoW). He's been like this for years and I keep thinking he'll just grow out of it.
It's to the point now, that in order for me to spend some QT with him, I have to play. Which is fine, but my life doesn't revolve around it.
He never wants to go anywhere, never wants to do anything. If I ask him to go, I always get "I don't feel good"..."I'm too tired". Blah, blah blah...whines.
Well, about a year and half ago, I cheated on him. No, not saying it's right. But, Jesus, I need some sort of interaction. He knows about it. He's fine with it, and ask me not to do it again.
On the weekends, he gets upset because I go out with my girlfriends. (yes, obviously, the trust thing).
The only thing the man does...work 40 hours a week. Takes 1 class a semester for his masters (which he does on the weekends). And WoW, on average, he plays 6-8 hours a day...7 days a week.
He doesn't have friends, and seems like he has no desire to try to make any.
This shit is getting old...quick.
But, there is no communication, sex is a rare occasion around here.
I dunno what to do anymore.
Wow! Hugs to you babe! I am not saying that cheating under any circumstance is okay or right but come on, he needs to try and work on YOU guys having some time together too. A relationship is a 2 way street and if you aren't getting the attention that you deserve, you have to figure out what you are going to deal with. I would sit down and have a nice long chat with him. My husband and I had a conversation similar about a year ago. He started putting forth more of an effort, I started putting forth more of an effort, and BAM it worked.
Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 1:36 AM on Jan. 30, 2011
14 hours! WOW! Nope, I wouldn't put up with that period. I would try one more time to have a decent conversation and then it would be over!
Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 1:45 AM on Jan. 30, 2011
Answer by alexia_09 at 1:57 AM on Jan. 30, 2011
Answer by LittleWeloosMom at 5:22 AM on Jan. 30, 2011
Kid you not if my hubby did that i would literally take his games & burn them & throw the computer outside! Sounds like you both need counseling. Good luck.
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