So when I was barely 2 my mom took off and left me with my dad and took my sister who was just a few months old, she never came back but my sister came to visit us, my mom never called me or wrote me not even on my birthday, i am not kidding either, nothing, so when i was 17 i met her for the first time, not a great experience but i met her, then ten years later i met her again when my sister passed away, i did her hair nails and makeup for the funeral. This year my birthday comes, we are in contact now granted the contact is through facebook but i will take it, still nothing but i see her talk to all these other people and say I love you and happy birthday to them but not me, i am her first born and she has 4 kids altogether and i am the only one she didnt keep, it hurts and i dont know how to get past it, i was over it but now she is here and i am able to communicate with her and she just says she cant talk tonight or talks about her other kids non stop, my sister and i are from the same dad the other 2 who i think dont like me from another dad. it hurts so bad on top of the hurt from losing my little sister, i dont know what to do and dont have a compassionate mom to turn toAnswer Question
Answer by iluvmykidsxoxo at 3:17 AM on Jan. 30, 2011
a grandma but i make the best of it. I'm sorry you are feeling this way & for the loss of your sister just try to focus on the positive in your life & i do hope things get better for you.
Answer by iluvmykidsxoxo at 3:20 AM on Jan. 30, 2011
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Answer by apurpledolphin at 3:56 AM on Jan. 30, 2011
Oh sweetheart I am sorry for the loss of your sister. I also lost my baby sister and it is tough. Do you know that it was and still is not your fault? I imagine all sorts of reasons but so do you. I hope you can look back and see yourself as a little girl and tell yourself you are perfect and special. Sometimes grownups do not know what to do. It is as simple as that. You were just too perfect and she did not know how to be a mom. That was not your fault. Keep sharing with us here on Cafe Moms. You be good to yourself. Anytime you wonder close your eyes and pretend your hugging that little girl (you) and remind her it was not her fault that her mom left. You have so much to share. I hope you will.
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